What You Find When You’re Not Searching

I went to a ‘Singles Bible Study’ at my  church in search of a fine Christian man, but instead, God showed me fellowship. Let’s talk about modern day dating, where you have unlimited swipes, low standards and easy access. Being a young adult who has recently started her career, I finally felt I was in a stable place in my life to start dating more seriously. Like many of my peers, I tried online dating sites, such as Tinder, Bumble, OkCupid and so forth. Although I met some nice men, we didn’t have any commonalities or shared interests. I thought…

At Least We Can Still Be Friends

You’ve been dating someone for a couple of weeks now; secure enough to mindless babble around them, which honestly is just the tip of the iceberg of weird qualities you have to offer. You have intellectually stimulating conversations; maybe dabble in discussing theories, and sharing personal stories. He kisses you goodnight and it takes you literally all your will not to strip down right then and there. Because classy girls wait to have sex, right? Now you’ve trapped yourself in this lustful phase, entirely clouded by your emotions. You’re becoming completely oblivious and infatuated with this idea of love. You…